How to achieve success in life

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Motivation is one of the very important aspect or subject for any person who wants to achieve success in life, Because if we just learn a certain subject or we just learn technology knowledge that is not enough to be successful in life, alright .you need  to along with learning some special skill, along with learning some technology skill. It is also very important that we have to develop our personal ability and personal skill.

 Important of thinking:

Importance of what we think, what is our thought process and what is our mental attitude? whether our mental attitude is positive or whether our mental attitude is negative. Every one of us, any person in the world you ask, every person wants to achieve success in his life If you ask any person what would you want to achieve in your life? He will say I want to be a successful person, but you see what is the definition of success?

we cannot say that success is the same for all the people for example, certain person is successful in achieving a good health, certain people success is getting a good education or degree, some people success is nothing but it is earning a lot of money in a valid way, in an ethical way not in an unethical way. some people success would be you know, achieving some spiritual achievement.

How we can define success so that it will not be relevant to only one person, it would be general for everyone?

“Success is the progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal.”Now I would say I would like to break this definition so that you can understand how effective is this definition for the purpose of success, see what is success for any person is any person who has set a goal in his life and he is progressively moving towards achieving the goal, you can say that person is a successful person. If a personal goal was to start a small business of his own, right now he is working for someone and his goal is to set up a small organization and start his own business and he achieved it. Now in our definition of success is a successful person because every person the definition of success will change. A person is a successful person who has set a  goal and he progressively realizing or achieving that is basically what success is meant to anyone. A lot of people mistake here, they will think that only earning money is a success in life but really that is not a case. There are so many people in the world who may not be terms of monitoring point of view but in term of the goal and achievement far more better than even the wealthy people in this world.

If you  learn only a technical subject but don’t have any internal motive or you don’t have any inspiration insight you know maybe  you will do a job for a few years beyond that you will not even think about  because if you see 95 percent of the people in the world, if you just go and analyze that most of the people in the world are not satisfied with whatever they do, if you ask why are you doing it? They will say we are doing it just the purpose of a survivor. which means that many of us have no goal at all in our life. we are just going through like a survivor process. so with the help of positive mental attitude a person can build a bigger goal in his life and also he can achieve bigger success compare to a person who doesn’t have any positive goal in his life.

How will you define success?

success is a subjective term, every person will have a different goal. So we cannot define that for me what is my success doesn’t mean that is also success for you, right. so success is subjective term whatever may be your goal, if you are achieving that goal in your life then I can say you are a successful person. Success can be getting fame in the world, success can be making your family happy and yourself happy, success can be achieving peace of mind, so there is a lot of aspect of success. we cannot define success always that only one term if you have money you are successful and if don’t have money you are unsuccessful, no we have a different goal and different people in the world according to their goal we have to define success. what is success for you first define it for example you want to make some x amount of money suppose that is success for you and defined that as your goal, whether you successful or not if  you are progressively realizing step by step that goal then you can say to yourself that I have been successful in attaining the particular goal. That is the basic definition of success. so what you have to do here is you have to have a goal and achieving moving toward that goal how do we get success in our life.

why it is important to have a good attitude, good positive thinking to achieve success in our lives and what exactly is the thought and how it generated?

Basically, you know a thought according to from some researcher every day we have at least in our mind we get 16 thousand thought. A thought is an idea, a particular part of our brain gets activated, it will think about something. If you do something again and again sometimes what happens is thought will come automatically to you, or sometimes if you are in a different mood like if you are in  a happy mood automatically happy thought will come in your mind and sometimes if you think about happy thought automatically you will become happy or your moment in your life where you are very happy automatically, you know it results in being happy in you, the same way if you think about something wrong automatically your body will also response to the same thing. That’s means that our mind is the most powerful element or organ we have in our body. The mind is so powerful that what exactly is the difference between a successful person and an unsuccessful person. If you see the main starting point was there thinking process. A  successful person thought I have this goal I can achieve it but an unsuccessful person have no goal in first place, they feel that they don’t have resources. A Thought is an idea which results from the thinking within the mind.

Here is the list of some great philosopher what they say:

1. The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes. If you say my life is not going well I would say change your attitude, change your thinking automatically your life will change according to your thought process.

-William james

2. You become what you think about.

-Earl nightingale

3. Whatever the mind of mind can conceive and believe is what it can achieve.

-Nepoleon hill

The importance of mind and how our body and mind work together?

The basic low of nature is what we sow, shall we reap. The simple meaning of this context is, you have land, alright what you do is if you went there and taken some seed of tomato and what will you reap? There is no chance you are going to get mango. Am I right. so in our life also the mind is actually the ground where we sow what we want. If suppose I want to achieve the success I have to sow the thought of success in my mind. This is created by nature low not created by you and me and also important thing if you sow something you cannot get the result immediately, correct. If you sow a seed today you cannot say I want the tomato tomorrow. Our attitude depends on our thought see whether I am a positive person or negative person it completely depends on what I am thinking now. my thinking process would be I am thinking about a goal and giving time for that to achieve that goal, what happens is when every day I think about it, every day I care about my thought it shaped our overall attitude and behavior. If negative person like if he got small problem immediately what happens he throw all his goal away and he will do the same thing what he used to do earlier but a positive person if he get obstacles he will say, no that is ok that is part of it temporally failure and still he would like to move forward in his life. If you think positive you become a positive attitude person, if think negative you become a negative attitude person and negative attitude person believe in your mind either you will have a positive attitude or negative attitude we can not have both.

How to achieve success in life

If I ask you is it now day or night there? you will answer here it is now day or night. you can not say it is day and night both. In the same way in our mind either you can be a positive person or negative person but you can not the both at the same time, so whenever you think positive automatically negative attitude will go and when you think negative automatically the positive attitude will go. If you have land and you want to grow some tomato plant there, what you will do you will clear that land, put some tomato tree, seed, to give water and wait for sometimes and after some month you will be getting your tomato, right it is a lot of hard work, if you take the same thing in negative you don’t need to do anything just leave the land as it is you know the grass will grow in that place. There no need to do anything in the same manner what is happening is when we don’t think in a positive point of view always automatically with the help of social media, television media and digital media, you know the negative will keep coming in your mind and internally automatically you become a negative person. So to become a positive person efforts are required and to become an unsuccessful person nothing is required you just leave your life like that whatever you are doing just do like that no need of any hard work. So always try to make your mind as a positive attitude person

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